I am concerned about my behaviour

The signs of an unhealthy relationship and the harmful behaviours that lead to family violence are not always obvious. All relationships have ups and downs and we all react differently when experiencing the downs.

We are here to help

If you are worried that your behaviour is harmful or abusive to those around you, Family and Community Services is here to help.

Family and Community Services
Walk-in or call. No appointment needed.
Call-in support: 780-464-4044

Walk-in support: Strathcona County Community Centre
Second floor of the east wing 
401 Festival Lane
Sherwood Park, AB T8A 5P7 
Monday / Wednesday / Friday  8:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. and 1 p.m. to 4:30 p.m. 
Tuesday / Thursday  8:30 a.m. to 12 p.m. and 1 p.m. to 8 p.m. 

Sign of unhealthy behaviour

When something goes wrong in your relationships, how do you handle the situation? Have you ever:

  • Yelled, accused, ‘name-called’ or ‘put-down’ the other person?
  • Focused on winning, instead of a solution?
  • Destroyed the other person’s belongings?
  • Tried to control the other person’s behaviour?
  • Harassed or threatened the other person?
  • Made the other person feel scared of you?

The hardest part about changing your behaviour is first admitting you need to. If someone else is scared of you or if people tell you that your behaviour is frightening, consider their past experiences with you.

Changing your behaviour takes courage, effort and determination. Once you begin to make these changes, it will bring you and others’ lifelong rewards.

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Contact us

Come visit us at our office
Address:
Second floor, East Wing Community Centre
401 Festival Lane
Sherwood Park, AB T8A 5P7
Phone: 780-464-4044
Fax: 780-449-1220
Email: familyandcommunity@strathcona.ca
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Last updated: Tuesday, July 29, 2025
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